I always try and think about details that I personally would notice to like help get my reader into that special sexy frame of mind. I'm a really scent and taste oriented person, so when I describe something as personal as kissing another human, I think of the unique scent they would have or like the taste of their skin. I try not to like overdo the descriptions, but I want them to feel right. It's just a fine line of like too little versus too much. I have some stuff written if you ever want to use it as a reference or just to read for like more exposure. I don't claim to be amazing at it, but I like to think I don't suck? lol.